What is love and how do you know when you are in love?

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Question by miss independant: What is love and how do you know when you are in love?
How do you know you are in love? Can you be in love if you hate a lot of characteristics about the guy/girl? I think i might love my boyfriend but i don’t like the way he talks or the things he does or the way he looks, but i love his personality. Do you think i love him or no?

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Answer by wuigi5692
All you have to do is ask yourself one simple question:

Will I be happy?

answer that question and you will be fine.i guarantee it.

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do you find it gross when you imagine doing nasty things to him? >:)

if so, you probably love him as a friend.

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You know when you are in love when you LOVE him. You want to be with him all the time and it is not just because how he looks or if he is so popular and all the other guys are always with him. I really don’t believe that you can be in love if you do not like the characteristics of them. I mean, cmon, the way people look is a very small thing compared to how much he/she means to you. The way he talks and the way he looks doesn’t matter. Do you love to be with him? Like the first answerer, can you picture yourself with him/her????????? In my opinion, since you say that you don’t like the way he talks or the way he looks, but you love his personality and that you love to be with him/her, I am pretty sure that you are in love with him/her.

I really hope this helps! =)

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a lot of people say u when ur in love u don’t question it which can be true but sometimes we question it cause were not sure well i would say to you if picture ur self without him, can u do it? seeing him making other women happy? can u imagine it? if u answered no u may love him but really think about it does he make u happy like no one else cause if that’s the case you do love him!

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Well loving someone is finding the perfectness in an imperfect person.
if you dont like how he dresses/talks/looks.
then what you doing with him?
On the other hand, you just know when you love someome and doubting it isnt great now isit?
its up 2 you, no1 can tell you how you feel.

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you know im in the same boat and you know i think i feel out of love with him he was my safe beat. i think you should be happy and if you find you dont like it then you will not be happy. i thought i would get over it and learn to love but i myself cant do it. i hope i could of helped you more. but if you find its not true then dont do what i did cuse it dont change.

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LOVE isn’t a noun to be defined with but a verb to be acted upon.

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love huh….it’s a very complicated emotion and so misunderstood in today’s day and age. true love is rare to find. especially in the younger generations. love to them involves lust and non lasting relationships. everyone’s experience with love is never the same as anyone else’s…that’s what is so special about it. no one else can imitate the love that you share with someone else. i can’t tell you if you are in love but there are a few questions you need to ask yourself. is there any lust in your relationship? because sometimes people confuse cuddling and saying i love you and kissing all the time is love but it’s not. anyone can coddle you and such and it will always feel nice. can you see yourself marrying him? and if so do you see a lot of problems you would have? and i don’t mean small problems like arguing over what kind of couch you’ll have. i mean where you cant submit to things that he does. can you see him as your best friend? can he help you and be there for you. even if you can answer yes to these questions. can he? theres many things you don’t like about him but you love his personality. well you need to ask yourself. will the things that you don’t like pose a serious threat to your relationship? a LOT of people in the world have nice personalities. but that doesn’t make them relationship or marriage material. anyway. all that is just my opinion

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Your in love when hes all you think about, you would drop all your plans just to be with him, you would even drop your plans because of the slight chance he might ask you do to something. You memorize his schedule and know what hes doing all of the time. You constantly are thinking about him as well as thinking up ways to see him, you will go a certain way just because you get to see a slight glimpse of him. You tingle inside when your with him, you miss him the second he leaves, you can tell him you love him a hundred times and still be able to say it again. You dream about him, hes the first thing you think of when you wake up and last thing you think of before you sleep. You find that when hes not there that all you want to talk about is him, he knows everything about you and you never run out of things to tell him. When you picture yourself in the future hes what you see, you would do anything to see him happy and the worst thing in the world would be for him to not like you anymore. he is not only your boyfriend/ husband or lover, he is your best friend and you can’t imagine life without him.
I’m fourteen, I’m in love. I don;t know this form people telling me this is what I do and how I feel.

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Do you hate the things he does, but do you still feel whole when you’re around him?

That’s the only way to know, in my opinion.

Good Luck!

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personally if i were you? i would wait until some tough times arise then i’d ask myself is it worth fighting for, you should automatically say yes or no, im not saying go have a fight him him but the way i know if i loves the guy that i love is when our relationship was tested and my gut told me to stay and fight. remeber the emotions are shown in the body and your body language, think how your tummy feels, your mind will lie to give you an easier option to make things less stressful so it may not always be best to listen to your mind

hope this helps ^^

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love is not in the diconary how you know that u r in love is ask yourself are u willing to stay with the guy that u r with 4 the rest of your life? that is wat i ask myself all the time

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