What does it mean to love someone unconditionally? Is it better to be loved unconditionally?

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Question by Ben: What does it mean to love someone unconditionally? Is it better to be loved unconditionally?
If a person is loved regardless of their actions, beliefs, attributes, and conditions, can that love not simply have gone to someone different? Is it not a greater honor to be loved for who you are? Is it better to have your love at risk than to love, unconditionally, recklessly, and randomly?

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Answer by Jay Sharky
Unconditionally does not mean recklessly or randomly.

Unconditionally does not mean you don’t love them for who they are as a person.

Unconditionally just means you love the person regardless of any “negative” attributes that others would see in that person. Something like missing a limb, paralyzed from the neck or waist down, or some uncurable disease. Love without conditions also means you love the person without having to say “you do this or that or I won’t love you” as can be the case sometimes in relationships. It also means you are willing to not let the person’s flaws mar your love for them.

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You love them for who they are. For their beliefs, actions, etc. And once you love them it develops into an unconditional love. No matter what you’ll love them. Even if they went and did something completely against who you are and who they were, you wouldn’t be able to help keeping loving them. It would be impossible not to love them because you loved them for who they were, even if they made a mistake. That is unconditional. It isn’t something that happens immediately when you fall in love. It happens over time. My cousin I love but he got mad threatened to hurt my aunt, did drugs and left. But I love him and miss him because I know and love the other side of him. It is unconditional.

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When someone loves you unconditionally, they respect how you feel and what you think. They will have your best interest at heart and love you – flaws and all. You’ll never have to worry about being anyone but yourself and you never have to worry that they will try to change the way you look or the way you dress.

If you are with someone and they give you ultimatums or always make you feel comfortable then you need to take a good look at whether or not the person is worthy of what YOU are offering, because before you worry about loving someone else, love yourself first.

Now, is it wise to love recklessly? Opening your heart is always a risk, because it can be broken. What I think is that you have to always listen to your instincts – you know those feelings you get when something doesn’t seem right. Use those to proceed with caution.

Most importantly, go slow. This will give you more time to figure it out.

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it mean s u love someone no matter what

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I love my boyfriend unconditionally. That means: I love him for who he is and the decisions he makes, the things he does, how he grows and who he becomes. It doesn’t mean I can love anyone. It means I love him and respect his views, his attributes and personality. Unconditionally means I wont walk out on him for dumb reasons. It means I’ll listen to what he says and if we have problems I’ll try to work it out. It means I won’t hurt him or hurt his feelings. It means i won’t leave him for any dumb reason. It means I dont want to leave him. It means I can tell him anything and listen to anything he says. It means he’s the love of my life, my soulmate and I’ll stick with him no matter what. It means he’s an amazing little dude and I know him well enough to know I dont want to love anyone else but him :)

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