Q&A: love??????

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Question by carolina: love??????
people that TRUELLY loved and lost, dont you wish you never loved? i really disagree with ”better have loved and lost than never loved at all”, it just hurts too much, its not worth it, i want to feel like that again but this time be with that person, i am with someone that i really love and like spending time with, i mean a really great guy like no other other, but am not IN love with hi, and there is a big diffrence……

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Answer by dl
It’s painful isnt it. I’m sure many ppl know that feeling. It sux. But i still think it’s better to love than not cuz without it, we wouldn’t have been that happy. it’s better to have happy moments. What goes up must come down right :D ? better to have a jump then to stay down.

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well I am 18 and never had feelings of love in any form, but I dont want to either I will kill myself before I fall in love

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i would love to answer but i dont understand sorry but ill try to. so here it goes.I’m just going to say that i think you should love someone as much as you do love them and your sure you wont lose them

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I absolutely understand what you’re feeling coz i’m also in the same kind of situation as you are in right now. i’ve lost someone i loved for five years and still continue loving.It hurts terribly hearing from that other person that he doesn’t love you anymore.Now here comes someone who seems all right for you and who loves you as much as you love him.In my case, i was honest enough to admit to “great guy” that i am still very much in love with the other guy.You’ll know if he’s as great as he seems when he still accepts you after that and is willing to wait. i guess what’s important is that we should be honest to ourselves first and not rush things with someone new because we’ll just end up hurting ourselves in the process.let’s not give up hope.There is a statement in a book called “the road less taken” that says that love is not a feeling but a matter of conditioning.we all hope that it’s true.you cannot shortcut all the hurt and the pain.you have to go through the whole process until your emotional wounds will heal.God may have other plans, better plans for us that is why He allowed our hearts to be broken.We all have to experience this several times in this lifetime.The good thing is, after we have recovered, we become wiser people.Don’t worry dear, this too will pass… it may take long, but it will. And we will learn to love again… mwah! take care.

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I hear ya. I also disagree with “better have loved and lost…” It’s definitely not worth it. I think the problem is that we expect to get our greatest happiness from love. We’re conditioned by all those stupid , songs & poems. I’m no psychologist, but personally I think it’s healthier to start with the assumption that we can be perfectly happy without ever loving anybody once in our entire lives. Lot’s of people are happy that way.

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Well I’m 19 and married I have known my husband since I was 5ish and he was 13ish (he was my best friend and my boy next door ) we finally got togather when I was 18 I went out with him for like a month and he proposed I love my life so much more now and i don’t think it matters how old you are as long as you know what you’r getting yourself into it is a very great thing but its some thing you will allways have to work at

my one and only

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I experienced the “love and lost” a few years back. I know the deep heartbreak, the wounds, the tears, and the pain. I thought “He” was the one I would marry….but God stepped in, and stopped everything, and the Lord opened my eyes and everything ended quickly like it started with the man.

I won’t go into much detail about it.

But I disagree…I am glad I experienced what “true love” really felt like…and love does things to people. It is better to have loved than never to have loved at all.

There were days I was angry, hurt, upset, or whatever. Some days more painful than others…with God and time, I got over him.

When I look back at my past, I am very glad I experienced this heart ache….it made me become stronger. I am very thankful to God that this man is no longer apart of my life!! The Lord saw things I did not see!!

Till this day I don’t allow my past to rule over my future.

Now at this moment, I have kept my love life at a complete halt….I have goals, school, dreams, even a possible future move, if God willing…..but I have given God my love life. I am letting him control it. The last time I took matters into my own hands, everything crashed and burned. Seriously!!

So I am very grateful I experienced love.

My past became a lesson.

Keep your chin up….don’t allow your past to destroy your future!! Be a strong woman, never allow a past experience to weaken your desires or dreams!! Learn to open your heart and trust again…and allow the Lord to guide you!!

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i no how u feel. im srry. but dont wrry u’ll b ok. its hard now and its painfull but every thing will work out. u will find some 1 u really love and that really loves u. or mabey l8ter u will start 2 love this guy. no matter what dont force anything. even if all ur friends r in love people fall in love at different times. it will all work out!!!!

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I definitely agree. I fell in love and that person didn’t feel the same way and i wish i had never even met her. how long have you been seeing him, maybe you will fall in love with him.

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