How to tell the difference between love and lust?

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Question by hi! :) : How to tell the difference between love and lust?
How do you know that you’re in love? This is my first serious relationship and ive been considering the fact that i might love this guy. BUT i see a lot of my friends who made mistakes with guys cuz they just had lust for eachother. also, how do i know know that HE loves me and its not just lust? its also his first serious relationship and i think the reason he hasnt said ” ilove you” yet it cuz he doesnt know either.

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If you think you could let that person walk away from the relationship and still want the best for that person, hoping s/he will be happy.

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You’ll feel the difference. If the feelings in your pants and is sexual and physical, then its lust, if you’ve got a drop dead amazing feeling in your heart and you feel like you can’t stop falling in an amazing way, then its love.

You wont “think” you’re in love.

You will KNOW.

So if you’re contemplating it, then you aren’t there yet.

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its really hard to distinguish, especially in your first relationship. I draw the line like this…
Love is when you love someone for who they are with their imperfections and all, no matter what changes and Lust is when you love someone for how they make you feel, the attention, affection, etc.

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i think if you have no other interest in that person

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Do you care about him or do you just want to sleep with him? That’s the main difference. Obviously most normal romantic relationships contain some lust. Its your first relationship so you are going to be new to all this. Just take it slow and try to enjoy spending time together.

If you do make a mistake with him due to only having lust for each other it really isn’t the end of the world so don’t get too worried about it. People move on from that eventually.

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Love is mainly a spiritual and mental feeling, Lust is purely based on a physical need.

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