How can you tell the difference between loving someone so much and being in love?

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Question by Rosie: How can you tell the difference between loving someone so much and being in love?
Does anyone know the difference with how you feel and your behavior in a relationship with someone between loving someone deeply and recognizing all of their fantastic qualities and loving those qualities, and being in love with someone.

What differences in behavior can you see?

I really love my partner my but sometimes wonder if i am in love? I think that he is in love with me because of the way he behaves, though i am confused, any help would be great thanks

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Answer by sheloves_dablues
“IN love” is a feeling. “love” is a verb, an action.

“In love” is the euphoria you feel at the beginning of the relationship when the other person appears to be perfect. “Love” is what sustains the relationship when the euphoria wears off and your learn how imperfect the other person is. You can be “in love” and not love someone, and you can “love” without being in love. The best relationship is the one where you love the person you are in love with.

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I think you know what it is. Its the way your treat each other. You can love anyone but to be in love with someone is the desire to be with them, to hold them, to make them laugh, to make them happy, and all those good things he does for you. Being in love is an overwhelming amount happiness. If its not there anymore for you, you should dig deep and make sure you are okay. Talk with him let him know in a delicate way that you are unsure of what you are feeling and need his help to figure it out together. Either you two drift apart and do not know each other in the end or help each other grow and at least have a chance of friendship.

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Loving someone is very very different from being in love with someone. When you love someone, you truly care about them and their well being and want to see them. You can definately love a friend
When your in love with someone, they fill your mind all the time, and when you think about him smile comes to you and you want to spend all of your time with him, even if its just watching a or doing homework together. It is rare to fall in love, and when it is genuine it doesnt run out after the new-relationship feeling wears off. (i have been dating my boyfriend for two years and i am still madly in love with him)
To tell if he is in love with you, how he holds you, how much he kisses you, how often he tells you he loves you, how he orients around you and how at ease he is with you. Sometimes even how protective he is with you.

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I would rather suggest giving the free love test at the website sacred-seduction dot com. I don’t know your age but it is intended for mature audience that have been in a long-term relationship.

Why do you wonder sometimes that are you really in love? What love means to you? Have you ever thought about that?

Sit for a moment clear your mind and think what love means to you?

Let me ask you:

Are you looking for a physical relationship or a spiritual relationship?

Do you think if someone kisses you, hugs you, holds your hand and says I love you is real love?

Sorry dear it isn’t, anyone can do it. But now tell me can you share your deepest secrets with that person? And can that person share his deepest personal secrets with you?

If you can share yours and he can share his deep secrets then it’s a sign that you have a trust relationship between you. And remember trust is the “Most Basic” bond that must exist in a loving-relationship to work.

The whole building of love is erected on trust. Can you trust that person for anything? If yes then you are truly in love. If not, you are not truly in love it is just infatuation.

Look ahead, I hope things will get clear and if you have time read that book on love and seduction. And remember never ever blindly trust anybody for a physical relationship. Always test first. Trust your conscience and inner feelings and go for a long-term relationship, I mean marriage.

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